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*onikka_iscool
writes:I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with my last boyfriend. He constantly called me fat and treated me like crap. I was scared to break up with him because he had horrible anger problems; and since he knew where i lived i thought he'd hurt me if i ended things. While I was still dating him I met this new guy. He not only helped me feel incredible, I started liking him. I finally got the courage to break up with that guy and a few days later I went on a date with a new guy. We didn't want to rush anything so we just dated but not official for 2 months. He told me he loved me but and said he's waiting for a perfect time to ask me. Another month passed (still dating) and I was wondering when he was gunna ask me. So I had the courage to ask him if our relationship was going anywhere. He said yes and that he's been stressing off of life at home and school. I believed him; a week passed and and him and I ended things because he didn't have time for his social life. I believed it again. And the following week I found out he started a relationship with this chick. I was so upset I cried my eyes out and he says he stills like me. And I still do really like him. I say him a few days ago, and we were talking and he got mad that the fact that I don't call him anymore. When I said I had to leave (since we were at the mall) he gave me a hug and kissed me on my cheak. I don't know how I'm gunna get over him, because I still want to be with him.HELP ME GET OVER HIM!:(
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reader, Donikka_iscool +, writes (18 February 2009):
Donikka_iscool is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the straight up answer, because honestly... that's all I needed. He's still in a relationship with the other chick. Since he knows I still like him, and I know he still likes me; I'm going to leave him alone because... for one thing.. this relationship with the other chick could be a good thing for him. and even if it is a bad thing for him; he can always learn from it. I hope that make sense.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 February 2009):
Why can't you get back with him?
I don't really understand why you were being "unofficial" when you blatantly were girlfriend and boyfriend.
I also don't understand why it ended.
Just talk to him openly and ask him what he wants. If he wants a girlfriend then you are there, if he just wants a friend then he has to back off and leave you alone to get over him.
Good Luck!! xx
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