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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: me and my boyfriend have been going out for neerly 4 months we started out great but just after christmas we started to argue really badly, he wasnt spending no time with me he went weeks without answering to any texts and when he sed he'll come over he stands me up in the end i gave up, after finding out that he stood me up so he can go for a drink with his friends. ive told him its over before but he insisted we needed to sort this out but later on that week he started blanking me again. in the end i told him it was over again and that ive had too much of it. i love him but i just got so angry. he then decided for us to go on a break so i agreed but i feel that hes just going to dump me after.
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reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (10 February 2009):
Honey, I think you'd be a lot better off without this d*ck in your life. You deserve better that that!
Think of your ideal guy. Would he be standing you up? Reeling you in only to chuck you back? Blank you?
I know the answer to these is no. So don't settle for it.
He's played around with your heart far too much and you need to put yourself first this time.
I know it might seem difficult but you really could do without the stress and hassle that he's causing you!
You want a guy who'll always be there and will always look out for you. You don't want to stick around and put yourself out for someone like this, hun. Believe me, I know!
Call him now and be done with it. Don't wait around for him to dump you when you know in your heart it's already over.
The end of a relationship is like a plaster, you gotta rip it off to stop it hurting so much and not drag it off piece by piece causing you more pain that it should.
Take care, hun. Do what's best for you, not him.
xxx
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