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writes:Am I destined to be alone forever?I am almost 20 years old and have never had a stable relationship. My longest was about 6 months on and off with a player type guy. The players seem to be attracted to me and vice versa but I only kiss them (at least I do now, having learned from past experiences) I guess I can sleep with them any time I want but I know that will emotionally destroy me, so I dont do it. I really want a relationship but Im also picky about who I date. I mean some guys like me but there is absolutely no chemistry between us, and I dont mean to be shallow but the attraction has to be there. I am not looking for a Brad Pitt type of guy but he has to be decent looking, have a good personality and treat me well. Is that so hard to find? I feel like I will be single for life..
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 February 2009):
You've been an adult for 2 whole years and you've not found your perfect guy.........
Yeah. You know that you are just feeling sorry for yourself.
Of course there is a bloke out there for you who is attractive and funny and will treat you like his queen. You just have to get out and find him.
If you keep finding yourself with "players" then change where you go! You must be going somewhere where people go for one night of fun a lot or they wouldn't be there.
Join clubs, volunteer, make new friends, you know the drill. Get out there and start chatting to people. You won't find Prince Charming on his horse in the back of a seedy night club.
Good Luck!! xx
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