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writes:in year 7 i asked this guy out and it went horribly wrong...i knew that he didnt fancy me...anyway i didnt really talk for like ages and then we were talking again (we werent properly going out cause i didnt want anyone thinking i was desperate to ask a boy out (i know its weird))anyway...i asked him who he really fancied and he said i was being paranoid and so i got really annoyed at him but later wrote him a note saying that i was sorry for being paranoid but i only realised later that he thought that i thought he fancied me...he then asked this other girl out and i was really jealous although no one actually knew we were going out...anyway we didnt talk for ages but then we became friends after a while...he then asked this other girl out and i didnt feel jealous just happy for them. they went out for a year but they didnt do anything and now we're quite good friends now and i feel really guilty for yr 7 (we're now in yr 9), i was just wondering how to say sorry and if i should...i just feel really guilty and what i could do to make it up to him?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 February 2009):
It was 2 years ago.
If you still fancied him then he wouldn't be your friend as he would be able to tell and you would be all jealous about his girlfriends etc.
It sounds like you are over him now and that is great that you are just friends.
I really don't think you need to say anything to him about it. He's a bloke so just hit his arm and call him a twat and he'll know you mean that he is your friend and you are glad he's there. That is how guys work. My hubbie is in the army and I am shocked at the things they call each other but I know they really mean "I love you as a friend" so it's fine.
Good Luck!! xx
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