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anonymous
writes:Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish? If my wife and I have sex and she doesn't achieve an orgasm, she wants more. But if she achieves an orgasm, we can go days without her desiring more. And God forbid, she has 2-4 orgasms in one night, I can forget about it. She tells me she enjoys having the orgasms, but it's like I get punished for "ringing her bell!" Please advise if this is a condition! I thought all women LOVE to experience orgasms!
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (10 February 2009):
i think women can just go without sex for longer then men. we don't have such a high sex drive as men. i think men think about sex alot more then women. i can go without it for days if i didn't feel like it.i don't think it's a condition, i just don't think she wants to have sex every day.
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reader, natasia +, writes (10 February 2009):
 I don't think it's a condition. I think everyone has their individual sexual identity/responses/etc., and that's just the way it is. Personally I wouldn't probably want 4 orgasms in one night - one (max.2) good one(s) would do me! But my reaction to frequent happy sex is that i want it at least twice a day - the better it is, the more one wants. So I can't understand the 'and then nothing for days' response, no. Perhaps it is emotional rather than physiological? Perhaps you should talk about it?
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