When someone says you've got too many hopes for someone what do they mean?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When someone says you've got too many hopes for someone what do they mean? Like my mate said it about me n this lad i like, i know we'll never be any more than good friends but stuffs happened in the past that drove me and him apart and now we're fianlyl becoming good friends again. I asked her if she thought i was obesed with him or that i follow him around to much(that was just me being paranoid, im not obessed and Ii don't do that) and she said no you just have to many hopes for him and that i chase him to much in other words I should back off and let him work on our fridnship and i kinda gathered she ment im just trying to hard to be gd mates. But what does she mean when she says i have to many hopes for him?

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