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He does not want to talk about us and has become verbally abusive. What should I do?

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Question - (10 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. It has had it's challenges as he has not always been truthful. Whenever I confronted him he would always pin the blame on me. The relationship had escalated to verbal abuse in the past however this has subsided.

More recently my boyfriend had decided he is relocating to another country and has excluded me from all his plans. Whenever I asked about his move he would tell me he does not want to talk to me about it and becomes verbally abusive towards me. Over the past few months he has put distance between us and always makes excuses not to see me.

When I have confronted him on whether he wants to end the relationship he has a hissy fit and starts shouting and screaming. He does not want to talk about our relationship. What should I do?

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A female reader, happy24birthday United States +, writes (10 February 2009):

happy24birthday agony auntYour question is what should you do - let him leave and hope you never see him again. Easy for me to say, I know, but that's the simple answer to your question.

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