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What do you do when your bf chats to girls on sex sites?

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Question - (10 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

What do you do when you find out the boyfriend you have had for a year is using sex sites to chat to girls everyday

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2009):

You kick him out so hard he doesn't even feel the computer monitor landing on his head afterwards.

If he wants you back he can beg and plead and you can decide if you want to forgive him or not.

If he doesn't come back on hands and knees then you are better off without him.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

Well its really not cheating unless he write's something explict but still that is really grotesgue that he does that and your obviosly up set with it. So sit down and talk about it and if he doesnt respect that then its time to move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

Well... if he loved you, then he would never do that!

so do you think he loves you, or not?

what do you think???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

Hi anonymous,

You are still together, because you write 'have had'?

In case you are:

Honestly, for my is this very unrespectful behaviour. You have found out after a year, so he was doing it sneaky.

you're asking 'what would you do'

I would ask him why he is doing this, you might learn something for yourself from his answers and after I learned I would do the following:

*Thank him for the honest answers and tell him that he can talk every night to as many women he wants, because I would not be interested in a guy who was behaving like this.

1-if he had a problem with you, he should have told you straigth away in stead of this sneaky and unrespectful behaviour.

2-if he had no problem, he is not honest to you or he is addicted to something where you do not want to be part of.

To my opinion you have nothing to loose, you lost it already or you never had.

That is what I would do, because on this planet somebody is waiting who will really love you.

Sorry for my direct answer, but you need to open your eyes.

Hope it helped, good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

dump him.. sorry to be harsh but everybody knows that is unnaceptable- including him, although he will deny it when you challenge him- so he clearly doesn't value your relationship nearly as much as he should. he should be spending his time making you feel special not being so incredibly selfish. Evidently you are considering staying with him- this just shows me that you are a very decent person and you deserve better.

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