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Why does he get soft as soon as we start?

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Question - (10 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , *ssgee39 writes:

why does my bf willy go hard when we mess about but as soon as he puts it in it goes soft?

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A female reader, Crazy-Candice United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

Crazy-Candice agony auntHonestly Ive been with a few men like this, Theyre so hard when youre playing and sucking them and whatever then as soon as it comes to sex they become a total let down! Its so frustrating its like building up to nothing. And then you try and try to help them especially when youre haurny, But it doesnt really make a big diff and they act like theres nothing up (literralyy)or anything. To be honest a lot of guys are like this these days its like they can't handle, or Do, conventional SEX. Tbh lose the letdown, find someone who can give a good ramming, I do believe it is emotional/psychological but its his problem not yours and there are so many products and things to help this but trust me guys are too egotistical and lazy to bother,

even some men when you look at there un erect penis have the nerve to make as though its your responsibility e.g

''touch it'' or ''why dont you do something about it''

or

''wake him up he's sleeping''

Honestly. I cant believe it if i was a guy i would never go around with a semi erect penis or unerect penis I would do everything in my power to get it up so i could beat it up, wheres the fun in sex if you aint even up??

men are so wierd.

they can get it up for porn and when theyre on their own but not even for a real woman. pft.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009):

o.k. so i see that your 41-50, or is that just a cover-up or something??, it's fine if it isn't.

any ways im 15 but i think i have the answer,

Q1) when you do 'mess around', are there people around??

Q2) have you talked to him if he really wants to have sex, or do you just assume he wants to?, because if you haven't i suggest you do, because sometimes as a male all we want is the inside feeling that she (in this case you)really wants me, not my willy. like in the sex and the city( i don't know if you watch it, but you should if you haven't seen one episode. i get forced to watch it since my sister owns the remote) episodes all they want is a long-term relationship, the same goes for men(sometimes anyway)

so yeah hope this helps, i got more questions but answer these first

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (11 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntVery possibly fear or discomfort about something.

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