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writes:MY EX well where do i start!!!he slpit with me over a month ago, we have been in contact for two on IM think we clocked 18 hours over for days, but he just wants to be "friends" we had a fantstic relationship but it ened coz he told his mum and i aint suitable blah blah..the quetion is does he love me? is it normal to want contact with your ex? I understand being but not yet?he even says he misses me and wants a hug do frinds do that but then saud he just needed a friend.were going out for a day trip soon is it wise if i love him?sorry loads of questions there!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): hi i wasnt good enough for his mother, i have kids she didnt like it, we were perfectly in love til he told..I think he is scared of her but he is rebelling as she didnt even want us to be friends.he tells me he cares its just confusing because if i end a relationship i wouldnt be friends so soon as i would consider the other.its like he needs me that he has stuff to say but just aint
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reader, Basschick +, writes (10 February 2009):
 What exactly did he mean that you weren't suitable? Suitable for what? Marriage? Kids? And why would he say that? Are you just a party girl? Someone fun and exciting, but not someone you'd take home to meet the family? Once you determine what he meant by that, you'll know how to make this decision. If he is holding out for something else when it comes to planning his future, I wouldn't waste any more time (or emotions) on this man. He's already said he just wants to be friends -- which could mean he just wants to be able to dip his toes in the party-girl pool when he's horny, but it'll never mean a trip down the isle. So it also depends on what you want out of this relationship. Do you want to be his play-thing, or do you want more? Answer those questions, and you'll know when it's time to cut the tie. Good luck.
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