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Why is love hard?

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Question - (10 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A male Puerto Rico age 30-35, *HE ALTERNATIVE ROCKER writes:

Okay this is not a question I just want an opinion. Why is love hard? Well my opinion is that love isn't hard its only something dificult to understand. Many people think that love is something u could find easily and live it without getting hurt. There wrong,love is something complicated that takes time and tranquility to understand. Like for instance in highschool many guys tell their girlfriends that they want they want to make love to them and their girlfriends say yes (well the mayority). And its something sad to see that many of those guys just wanted to have sex with them,when I here this from girls crying to their "oh after I made love to him he left me , he said that I wasn't the girl he was looking for",it just frustrates me because many men see women as if they were a peace of meat. They can't apreciate her feelings. Another thing thats messed up is that there are also guys that are real gentlemen and women cant distinguish it from men who aren't worth anything. I wrote this but I don't want offend anyone.

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A female reader, miss jane United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

i know its so complicated ive got the most amazing boyfriend who never pressures me into anything and i love him so much and our relationship is based a lot on trust and all htat (he was my best m8 b4 we started going out) but our friend she really loved her boyfriend and he treated her so horribly he'd say when we break up would you mind me going out wiht so n so and he finished her shes really upset about it and now me my boyfriend and all our mates are left to pick up the pieces coz her best mate has sided with the girls ex. you sound so nice i hope you find a girl that is as nice as you sound

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