A
female
age
30-35,
*rishia
writes:i liked a guy for a really long time and finally after years we started going out.i was ecstatic.i loved every moment.he told me that he loved me and i believed him.but he never wanted anyone to know that we were going out cause he 'thought' that we should give it more time. after about 1 and a half months he started to be mean to me,accuse me saying that i didnt trust him etc etc and finally in exactly 3 months said that its not gonna work and that it was all my fault. i couldnt bear it nd i knew that ill never get over him.(GUY A)about 2 weeks after i broke up with him...i realized that i liked another guy.he was popular and everyone wanted to go out with him.i also knew that he was flirting with me and when he asked me out 2 weeks later i said yes.(GUY B)i never expected B to take everything way too seriously.however he did and he was the most amazing guy ever.he was sooo understanding and did everything to please me.it didnt take me long to also figure out that i wasnt over A. Guy A was still the one i thought and dreamed bout.i could never get over him.i knew that i had made the wrong decision by going out with B. i explained everything to B and told him that i could never get over A. he was sooo understanding but didnt want to let me go.somehow my feelings towards B gradually decreased and i started to miss A more everyday.it finally came to a point where i couldnt take anything and i told B that we had to stop.he cried and begged me not to leave him.i had no choice.i knew that i could never love B to the extent that i loved A and that it would not be fair on him if i continued.ive stopped calling B cause i want him to forget me.i donno about A ever coming back to my life....but i know that i can never get over him cause if i would i already would have by now after going out with such an amazing guy like B.please i beg uou....what should i do????
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reader, trishia +, writes (14 February 2009):
trishia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmmm weird thing is today he asked me if he cud cum wit me to go on a ride!!!!y is he duin dis????
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): sounds to me like you just need time sweetie. After feeling so strongly for A, 2 weeks isn't a very big gap between relationships.
You will get over him. The fact that you recognised how wonderful a guy B was is a good start, this shows that you can find somebody else and you dont think of A as the only good guy in the world.
but for now you just need to give yourself time to move on from the hurt of your relationship with A. spend time with your friends and just have fun, enjoy the freedom of being single and get back the confidence that A probably knocked out of you.
it may take a while, but you will learn to let go and move on, and someday you will find another amazing guy who you can be with without even thinking about A. i hope everything goes well for you xx
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