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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Should I feel smug about this - after me and my ex broke up he slept with another girl (he called it re-bound sex but he broke up with me) anyway I found out about this when I rang his phone and she picked it up and had the great pleasure of telling me that they have been sleeping together and even lied about how he cheated on me with her before we split up. Anyway she has met him about 3 times, he even took her to a family party because he didnt want to go on his own. Now this is the funny part....He has told her that he has no interest in her but she thinks that they are a couple, she is ringing his best mate for his new number (which I helped him get) and he has said under no circumstances give her his number. He has now asked for my help on how to get rid of her (that is the bit I feel smug about cause its like pay back for him hurting me). Should I help him or leave him to deal with it, I mean I want to help him cause I still care about him but also cause its funny. What should I do???
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reader, Ashtarot +, writes (10 February 2009):
 Let him sort out his own mess. He got himself into it...so it's his responsibility to get himself out. He's just using you by the sounds of things cause he probably knows how you still feel about him.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (10 February 2009):
 You need to remember you broke up here! He shouldnt be relying on you to get you out of his mess, he hurt you and doesnt deserve to have you in his life!
I think you need to start moving on from your ex and the first step is to stop seeing him and stop contacting him. You are not together anymore and you need to give yourself time to let your feelings that you have for him go away.
He deserves to have this girl bugging him; he made his bed now let him lay in it!
Good luck!
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