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writes:Hey, ive never been on here before a bit of a new bee :)Well i have a big dilema, ive just found out my crush of 3 years is in love with my twin sister.My twin has come to me for advice as i know the boy more, but she doesn't know about my feelings and i think she has similar ones for him too. What do you think i should do tell her or just leave it and let her go out with him? As id prefer her to be happy then me, but i love him.Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your advice, i am going to tell her, i think it is the right thing to do. So thank you everyone
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reader, alohanikkiii  +, writes (12 February 2009):
hey, i just started on this website too. so hopefully my advice helps a little. now i'm not a twin or anything, but my friend is and she always tells me about the relationship she has with her sister. she says it's weird cause at times you want to escape your sister, but your sister's always there. like you have a special bond where you understand more about each other then friends or sisters a few years apart. knowing this, i would just mention to her how you feel about this guy. it's the only way for her to truly know your feelings for him.. and you don't want thingd to become awkward between you and your sister cause if things don't work out with the guy for either of you, you'll both be going through the same situation and will cope better together. good luck.
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reader, kathy255 +, writes (10 February 2009):
OMG this has happened to me before. I am a twin the man my sister is married to now I use to have a huge crush on. She knew that I liked him but she did not care she still dated him. Whether you tell her or not and they end up dating, you will probably be hurt by it. Although, now I am very greatful that they are together I have two awesome nephews and he is a piece of shit and I can not stand the way he treats my sister so I am glad that I did not get with him. I have set my feelings aside for my sister so many times. I am always doing things for her I have given her the last dime to my name. I know what it is like to give up things that could make you happy just to keep your sister happy. Do not give up your happiness for your sister, but if they get together don't try to stop it just let it naturally progress. If your sister loves you she will discuss it with you. As young as you are I would not give it too much thought you will have many more boyfriends over the years, this one won't matter later on in life.
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reader, Mr hair man  +, writes (10 February 2009):
You gotta tell her how you feel or else you have no hope of ever being with him,like if they break up he wont then be with you after your sisterJust talk to her before its too late and make sure she knows exactly how you feel.Hope it goes well and you all are happy
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