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writes:ok, im only 16. and have never slept with anyone, or done anything apart from snog (sad i guess but ive just never met the right person) well anyway been a relationsip with this really nice dude for about a month, we havnt really spoke about sex, and then last night i stayed at his, i stay at his quite a bit, stay in the same bed and stuff but this has never happend before, well in the mornin we were like snoggin and stuff then he un zipped my trousers, and stuck his hands down my pants, playin with my clit i guess, well then we like stuck his fingers (definatly more than one) coz it ******* hurt inside and kept shovin them inside me for what felt like hours, and it really hurt, plus i guess i was tensing coz it really hurt. but i didnt tell him to stop, coz im not really sure why, but then we did stop, and then it really hurt down there.. and he was like shoving his fingers in and out, and he has quite big handsand then like an hour later he did it again, and it still hurt and now it REALLY hurts like when ever i sit down or anythinghelp!!! i dont know what the **** is going on or anything!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): If his fingernails weren't filed smooth, he may have cut you. Vaginal walls are very delicate tissues and can easily be torn by fingernails.If he didn't wash his hands before activity, bacteria that was on his hands or underneath his nails could have gotten into the cut and caused an infection.You don't want a tear in there, m'dear, believe me! A cut can become infected and next thing you know, you've got a really bad UTI. Those are NOT fun!So if you find that you are having painful or difficult urination symptoms, see a doctor ASAP and get on antibiotics. Want to treat those infections right away, or they can spread to your bladder, kidneys, and you definitely don't want that!Next time you and the bf get intimate, make sure his hands are clean and nails filed smooth if you want it to be an enjoyable experience instead of a painful one.Or, alternatively, just ask him to slip a condom over his finger before he inserts it. Clean, safe, and no cuts!
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