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*ody829
writes:Hi, I have been single for 3 years now and up until now, I had no desire to change that. For the past 4 months I have been hanging out with this guy that I dated 15 years ago, we haven't kissed or even held hands but, have discussed somewhat, what's going on between us. We've been together everyday, we do pretty much everything together. We have agreed to not get serious so quick but, it's kind of hard not to when we are together so much. I think I am falling for him. What do i do?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (15 May 2008):
 No courage is needed... just the conviction to speak plainly and openly and be available to accept the happiness to follow!
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reader, jody829 +, writes (15 May 2008):
jody829 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys so much for your answers they were very helpful. I still haven't talked to him yet but, I am preparing my self to do so. I am working up the courage, I haven't done this in while so I'm a little rusty. I guess I'll never know until I find out.
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reader, sassymouse  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Why not is what I say! Whats holding you back?! You obviously like him to be spending so much time with him! Go for it! x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Do not swim against the tide.
Flow with the current and let go.
Allow the current to take you wherever it wants.
Enjoy each other and be natural.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (8 May 2008):
Are you two moving at the same speed? From your question, it's not clear if you are the one that might want to step things up or if it's the both of you. In either case though, I think a sit-down, heart-to-heart is what's called for here, don't you? It seems that if you're spending so much time together, then that implies that there's something there between you, but perhaps you're both trying to figure each other out a little bit. A good old-fashioned conversation sounds like it's in order. As long as the two of you are real clear with each other, this could be the beginning (or re-beginning in your case) of a great thing!
Take the risk and find out. At worst, you keep the same dear friendship you have already!
Best wishes!!
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