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How do I approach him about getting a relationship started?

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Question - (8 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *mo babe writes:

Okay, so there is this guy and i really like him and we have dated before and we were so perfect together and then just one day it all fell apart i really dont know what went wrong to make our relationship come to an end. We were like best friends before we dated and after we broke up it took us awhile to gain our friendship back and so far we have got some of it back. But since we have been hanging out i have noticed that i still have feelings for him and i think he still has some fellings for me bcuz we have been flirting alot. I dont know if i should move on and just remain friends or should i try to get a relationship goin between us and if i should try to get a relationship started then how would i approch asking him??? Any advice would help...

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A male reader, AuntyBruce Australia +, writes (9 May 2008):

There are a number of approaches you could take, you could try, as the other two have suggested "asking him" but that's a little boring.

If you want to get this relationship off to a spicy start, try digging through his guys past and finding a skeleton or two. It can really be anything - a hit and run, a meth habit, hell...even a speeding ticket. Dangle that above his head and say something provocative like "It'd be a shame if we were apart and people were to find out about your upskirting website" Then he doesn't have a choice. If he's got a brain he'll read between the lines.

He'll do anything to make you happy then.

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A female reader, growing India +, writes (8 May 2008):

growing agony auntWhat is so hard in asking sum1 who was yr best frd and even bf sumtime back and now again you two are getting friendly.you must be knowing him in and out.just pop up the question the way he liked when you did it fo the first time but yes,its not all that simple as it seems to.

i mean ,first ask yrself do you want him back? causes that were responsible for yr break up have been cleared?so just annalyse few qustions and then whats there not to date him again?

go and tell him.

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A male reader, zgeek United States +, writes (8 May 2008):

zgeek agony auntyou can simple ask him if he would want to go back out with you. if you really still have feeling toward him. and he you. go for it!

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