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writes:I'm in an amzing relationship and have been for several years children marriage and all...There is absolutly nothing missing I'm blessed Loved in Love...But Sex is not what it should be has my partner does not last more then a few minutes...I Love him to much to say anything so therefore have been quiet for the last 14 years...Just wondering if there is anyway to fix this:) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): well first of all you shouldn't be quiet about something as important as this. I mean I am only 18 and even I know this about a relationship. Relationships are about trust and COMMUNICATION! If you 2 are really in love then communicating about this shouldn't be of any concern what-so-ever. But it sounds like you've been the one hiding your feelings. Grow up! The poor man is going to be more heart-broken that you've kept this secret from him for 14 years and are looking for advice over the internet instead of going to the source! HIM! Don't be a coward. Sometimes the whole thought of "hurting someones feelings" is the thought that gets you into trouble. Don't worry about hurting his feelings because he loves you and I'm sure even if it hurts him or embarrasses him a little bit he'd rather you be OPEN AND HONEST with him so that you may stand a chance to better your sex life and to keep it alive. As far as him lasting, tell him to do some kiegals they work! Tell him to do like 30 of them for do them a few times a day for a minute and pretty soon he will keep a rock hard for a while!!!!! lol my boyfriend didn't last as long as I wanted either and we were open and honest with eachother and now we enjoy a wonderful sex life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): tell him that u would like to try something different. ask him to oral u 4 a longer time before u have sex
u could tease him a lot and then just leave him there and not satisfy him (lol) and then wen hes really gagging 4 it, it will last longer
or you could ave sex after a long time like a month or so which will make him last long
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