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anonymous
writes:ok, me and my boyfriend dated on and off for two years, we were really into eachother. but we broke up about a month and a week or two ago and and the first few weeks he was mean, but then he apologized and we made up, we didnt go back out, but i mean we were friends and everything for a few more days, and then after he started bein mean again, he has been so mean, like cussin, sayin he dont care about that it's are 8 month thing or whatever, and there's this girl, he likes her and says she is perfect, just like he used to about me.. i dont know what to do anymore, i love him so much, but he ACTS like he doesnt care for me at all, but he tries to make me jealous all the time by sayin, i cant wait to get my hugs from jaci tomoro and like no guys are ever gonna go out with you, and he always calls me lame and says im immature and he is name calling me, that would be immature. he says im stupid and uh, i dont know what to do, give me advice! i went to God and everything but no result yet! i dont know what to do! ah! ):
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): There is more to the story then isn't told. It sounds like the break up left hurt feelings, his anger and hurtful statements reveals this.
It is time to move on.
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reader, sugarwaffle +, writes (8 May 2008):
You need to cut your ex out of your life. You will have strong feelings for someone that you've been with for the past two years, and those feelings don't fade overnight.
So you two broke up and he acts like a jerk. He swears at you, tells you about this "perfect" girl, calls you names, and tells you that you're stupid.
Do you seriously want to be with someone like him? Yes, you two may have had good times in the past, but his behavior is completely unacceptable. Why would you want a partner who treats you so poorly, verbally abuses you, and derides you? He's done it in the past, and chances are, he will continue to do so.
I truly believe that he's stringing you along: when he doesn't have another girl to go to, he sweet talks you. When he has a girl who will put up with him, he kicks you to the curb. You deserve so much better -- I hope you realize this soon.
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