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writes:Ok i need desperate help, i dont know what to do.. i am in love with boy we've dated 3 years on and off. The problem is last month i broke up with him because i needed time i think, i was so confused i didn't know if i really loved him. So i went on with another boy to make sure i really loved him. Now he has a girlfriend and wants to be with me and i have a boyfirend and wanna be with him. What do i do to be with him but not seem like a whore to everyone i know. I need help.
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reader, growing  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 well i may sound inhuman but sumtimes one should be manipulative.one thing is clear that both of you want to be together and leave your respective partners.so don't think of getting back to them.
Now if you want to do sumthing good for them then it is just to let them know that you no more feel for them as soon as possible.Don't be guilty about anything bcos its your heart that is involved in love relationships and now its not beating for them so you can't do anythng with that.
Next that disturbs you are your frds that how wud they react?so keep yr relation with this new guy a secret for a month or two and then you can tell them so it won't seem as if you just want 1 guy after another.cos i know people don't think even once before throwing nasty comments on others till the time they go through the same situation so just act smartly and you can even hide this frm yr wud be ex and let them now after sumtime that you met some other guy who makes you happy.simple!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): If you both want to be together, why aren't you? It isn't fair on the other people you are with, so if you are sure then the news has to be broken to them gently.
In future, if you break up with someone, give yourself a bit of space to get over the relationship, otherwise it can end up making the next relationship a mess.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 Just follow your heart tells you and ignore what other's say.
It is better that you are happy than others are happy.
It is no point being sad while others are happy.
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