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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am in a bit of a situation that is upsetting me.I go to college and before I went there I didnt know anyone.On the first day I was sat by myself so on the second day I decided to go over and chat to another girl who was by herself.We got chatting at lunchtime and when we went back into the classroom I found out that she also chatted to 2 other people solely in the classroom but didnt stay together at lunchtime.We sat together in class with these two other people who only spoke to her and not me for some reason and she spoke to just them,but at lunchtimes the other two went off and then she would speak to me.Me and her seemed to be getting on but then when she got more friendly with them they asked her to go with them at lunchtimes and she asked me to come,so it was the four of us.Over time me and the other two exchanged a few words but not a proper conversation or anything.Then it got worse I felt as though I was being pushed further and further away.Recently we went on a trip and I just felt as though I was tagging along other than they wanted me to be with them,they didnt speak to me all day,I tried to speak to the one who I first knew but she was just basically ignoring me.And today we went into the toilets and we were stood by the mirrors and they looked at me then looked at each other and laughed.They do really immature things like laugh at my clothes and whisper behind my back and when they are showing each other things on their phones they never show me.But I don't know what to do about it because I can't just go and sit with someone else in my class because everybody else has already formed groups so its not an option and also the people in my class are peculiar because they don't speak to anyone apart from the people in their groups.This is making me down because I feel hurt and betrayed and I dont know what to do or say.I dont want to quit college because of this but I also dont want to sit in the corner on my own.Can anyone offer any advice or guidance on the situation??Your help will be appreciatedThank-you for reading
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