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I'm nearly 18 and have a tendency to go for older men but he's 59?

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Question - (8 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 17, nearly 18. I have a tendency to go for older men, Normally about 24,25. But in this case i like someone who is much older! He's 59. Im not normally attracted to men this age but he is a huge expection! I see him everyday, at a sports club where i also go. He's always quite keen to talk, and from what other poeple have said, i think he is quite attracted, but that is just an assumption. when he was younger he was quite Promiscuous and from stories and gossip still is!...I dont know whether the attraction is purely curriousity, or there is actually something there... or whether to act on it or not???

Please, im really confused about this! any advice or opinions would be great!!

Thankyou!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

I'm not one to judge, as I don't know you in person, i have no real idea of the situation. I will say a few things though -

1) Generations change, and if you got to know him properly you may find you have nothing in common.

2) Imagine in 10 years time if you want children. This guy will be 69, and will more than likely not feel the same.

3) When your 37, he will be 79, retired, and you will more than likely end up turning into a full time carer.

4) He is old enough to be your grandfather, meeting his family will be hard for you, and him meeting your family will be even harder.

You're still young, have a lot of life to live, and still have many more years to find your 'prince charming'. Be patient, it will happen. In the mean time I would try and stay away from wherever you usually see him...

Good Luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

He is probably married. My mom's husband stays at a sports bar every day. I'm sure he does the same thing, look for younger women to stroke his ego. I don't see anything good coming from this. He's old enough to be your grandfather.

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