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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Well I am 31 yearold with2 chilldren and it seems like my sex life with my babies father is gettin dull and boreing aand sex with him is something worth not waiting for what can I do to spice up our sex life.?I also have cerebullar degeneration it is nuerological condition which really changed my sex life and I really truly don't feel sexyabout myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): When I first read this, I thought you were blaming your husband for being bored. Mentioning a condition you have tells me there is some depression probably involved to. Understanding the condition and all the effects it has on you, should enable you to mentaly control some of these feelings. The last thing you want to do to your husband is to make it his problem, whereby, you place him in a depressive state, that would be unfair to him.
When two people love each other, that should be enough to want to be with him, to enjoy what he gives and to enjoy giving back. All the bells and whistles that can be brought in is only clouding a judgement made that something is wrong, and will not solve the problem. A little latter, this short lived excitement will wear of and then you'll be looking for new ideas. What you need is the true love connection with your spouse, all this other stuff will just cloud the situation from reaching the true individual and loveing him/her for that.
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