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writes:My g/f seems unsure of my love for her. Shes overwhelmed by life overall and me, and needs space(but not breaking up). What would be my best bet here? I don't want to give her too much time, I'm afraid that may lead her to think I really don't love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Lovely advice from PeterPan, I agree with him. Buy her a little meaningful gift (like he said, flowers and a card are always a good, traditional but loving gift) and give it to her right before you go away for a break or whatever. But let her know that whenever she wants you, you'll be right there. Basically, you've got to just do your best to be there for her. I don't know how much you guys text, but maybe text her to say good morning and then goodnight? Just let her know that you are there and still think about her and care about her lots.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (8 May 2008):
 When I read these questions, sometimes I see myself faced with the same situations and problems, then as what would I do? Here's what popped into my head...
Buy a nice arrangement of flowers, vase and all of whatever her favorites are. Bring them to her with a really nice greeting card (something not too sappy, but expresses the love that you feel for her). Inside, write something really nice that reassures her that you have the best intentions for her, but you are but a moment away... around the corner, a phone call... whatever. Present the flowers and say that they are a supposed to be a reminder of you and say that she can have all the space she needs, but emphasize that you're giving her what she needs because of the love you feel for her.
Yeah... that's what I would do...
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