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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Sounds like your husband not only does not love you, but he doesn't even like you or respect you right now. Get thee to marriage counseling, or file for divorce. No living woman should have to put up with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): Stop expecting a fairytale marriage...they don't exist! Somebody's always cheating! Your husband just doesn't care enough to hide it from you...might as well accept it and have some fun of your own!
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reader, Aeval  +, writes (13 May 2008):
 One word.......DIVORCE!
Or, you can sleep with other men and when he gets upset just say " I am an alpha female, I need to make sure I have the alpha man" hee hee hee My guess is he won't take to that too well!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 A megalomaniac and a pathological egotist.
Women are just playthings to them.
Probably believed he is God too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): I agree that he's being a dick.
Tell him that the same Darwinian logic he's using has a flip-side. It basically tells you to shop around for better genes than his behind his back, and try your best to keep him from finding out so he will put in the effort to raise those kids as his own.
He probably won't like that side of the coin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I'm sure in time he will grow old and as Darwins theory explains will be diplaced by a younger more virile male. then it will be your turnb to have the fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): this guy is a first class dickhead. how did a nice girl like you end up with a jerk like him? ditch him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): He is in his comfort zone. He feels as though he has got you where he wants you. He knows you will except his behaviour so he disrespects you. You need to get a backbone and leave him alone. He has grown up as a christian so knows that adultery is sin but he doesnt seem to care much.
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reader, Twirly  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 Wow!
I think you should say 'that's fine dear, sleep with as many women as you like, I'll have the divorce papers ready for you asap'.
What a jerk! I think you should leave him behind and move on, you deserve so much better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I think he's a fucking asshole and if I were in your shoes, I'd tell him to drop dead.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 Well if you just find his attitude to be "strange" then fine accept his ridiculous behavior. According to MY theory he's a first class jerk and you could do a lot better. Watch out for what else he may bring home from his trysts besides soiled boxers, if you get my drift.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): He is a selfish rat, I am sure if you played around he would go beserk. I adore my husband, however if i found out he had had an affair i would be gutted and i couldnt stay with him. Your husband has openly admitted that he wouldn't think twice about doing it again, he probably even goes out looking for women.. don't grin and bear it.. get out, you will find someone who really loves you and puts you first. As your husband gets older he will get less women and will no doubt crave the security of marraige but while he can do it he will. Please find the courage, with the help of freinds and family to leave him.. its easier said than done, but he clearly has no respect for you or your marraige.
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