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writes:Ok heres the deal I have been dating a young lady for 1 year now. We have always been friends.last year we grew closer and became best friends and then of course decided to pursue a relationship. The love between us has been so amazing! We broke up twice and in Jan was the last time. She told me your not for me and 2 days later said I miss you and broke up because I wasnt sure you were for me. She told me to move on so i started to and then right before easter she made it clear she wanted me again. This last month we were close again doing all of the things couples do. I week later I dont here from her and now she has another boyfriend? let me clarify i am 31 and she is 21 when i confronted her on it she said i gave you false hope and You need to move on. i told her i would always be there if she wanted to be close as friends or in love. She told me she was not sad about being close but only sad i couldnt get over her and she felt i was a chain around her leg holding her back. She said she has been over this for a while yet she said I never used you. I have only ever loved her and treated her with the highest respect as her best freind and in love and now i am only a chain after all this time? 3 days after she is now in love with the new guy (she says)She told me not to wait for her.I love her with all my heart i told her ok i will leave you alone. My question is this over? Will she want a reentry again Has she forgoten me? What to do?
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reader, dizzle1234 +, writes (9 May 2008):
dizzle1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok guys i am taking all of your advice and now it seems she is so happy and in love. I dont get it? Can anyone explain this crazyness
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reader, dizzle1234 +, writes (9 May 2008):
dizzle1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I wrote this question and Now she claims to be so happy can anyone explain this
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Wake up. You don't really want any answers youre so far in her spell you can't see.
Even if you do love her she doesn't love you. So get over it.
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reader, dizzle1234 +, writes (8 May 2008):
dizzle1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhy then woyuld she tell me not to wait for her and almost despise the fact that i told her i loved her? It just doesnt make sence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): She likes the fact you adore her and plays you like a puppet on a string. She may well be back, but only to check you still worship her, then she'll be off again. For sure she will be back when you move on to someone new, but again only to check she has a hold over you.
My advice is dump her and shut all doors she as for re-entry. If she comes back again, say you no longer have feeling for her and leave it at that. This woman craves the fact she has this power over you, and comes back only to boost her self esteem.
Good luck
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 Hi there, forget about her, she is happy about the fact that you love her and takes delight in playing with you and know that if any of her relationships dont work out in the future, she can contact you and you will come running and will keep doing this to you for as long as you are prepared to put up with it and be used. How very cruel some girls can be to people who are good to them, gives us women a bad name.
Darling try to be strong and if she does call you again, dont go back, tell her you no longer want anything to do with her as she will only break your heart over and over again. Better still change your number, email so she cant contact you. It true what LonelyTwo has said, this girl does not know what she wants and will not change.
Good Luck, walk away and be strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Your comments to her tells me your a welcome mat for being stepped on. This girl is an emotional roller coaster, she doesn't have a clue as to what she wants. For your own sanity sake, you should forget her and move on, otherwise, you will become a wreck, doing the what if scenarios, which will only place you into depression.
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