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anonymous
writes:Can you help? I've been without sex for over a year now, and it's starting to make me quite frustrated. I don't know why that is, but it has started to affect my mood. Today I was quite grumpy, and the only conclusion I could find was that it has been so long since I last had physical relations with somebody. I don't want this to escalate any further!I'm considered a pretty nice guy, but I feel like a bit of an arsehole for asking for advice about something like this. Sex to me has always been a very loving thing (I've only ever had sex with somebody I loved), but right now, I feel like I'm open to all options... And knowing that this is what it's come to makes me pretty low. Someone please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'll be honest, I don't really have many girl friends (friends who are girls). In my college, there are only 3 girls out of BOTH year groups. One of them is taken, the other one is very quiet and doesn't speak, and the third... well, we aren't suited, I know that much. When I go to university, I'm sure I will establish friendship with more girls.
Yes, shamefully masturbation is something I've been doing for a long time now, and it isn't satisfying anymore. I want to meet somebody special... failing that, anybody! Anon is right. My body is SCREAMING for it. I hate feeling like I have little self control. People have gone without sex much longer than me. But while that's the case, I feel like I desperately need to feel something physical again SOON!
It's friday night. Chances are I'll be going out. I fear that going home alone will be a huge blow for me. So, I'll do my best to just go out, and not expect anything to happen, leaving only a little room for disappointment. Any further advice would be great. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): You're human! If we could hold back sex easily the human race might have died out. You're body is yearning and screaming for sex. Masturbation may help but if its been a year surely you're already doing this? In my opinion masturbation only goes so far in dealing with sexual frustration. If you only want sex with someone you love then it might be time to find that someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): masterbation! I know, you'll prolly hear a lot of that, but if this frustration is getting out of hand, go for it. If you have and you're still not satisfied, have you considered sexual relations with a good girl friend who might be in the same boat? For me, I get nothing out of masterbation, never climax, and it isnt from a lack of trying! I needed that physical connection, so if you're anything like me, you will need a friend- literally. Just use protection to avoid any accidents:)
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