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writes:okay well me and my bf broke up and he now has a new gf. We dont really talk but once in a while we will. but anyways, he kept all my comments to him on myspace and they say how much i love him and all that. Why would he keep them on there, Everyone tells me that his parents had something to do with the break up because they blamed everything wrong that happened on me. But Yeah he was on today and my comments are still there and He dont treat his new gf ANYTHING like he treated me, He treated me so much better. I just dont get why he would still keep pictures of me on his phone and keep my comments about how i love him. To me it seems like he still cares...idk
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (8 May 2008):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question he broke up with me, He even admitted to still likeing me after he did it. People tell me all the time that they can see that he treats her nothing liek he treated me, He actually admitted to loving me. Yeah but he keeps my comments on his profile and siad he still has pics of me. They hardly talk or show affection, they look the same as when they were friends. They sit at the same table with me so is not like i pay attention. Its so wierd because I feel like there still is a part of him that wants to care but I dont want to assume this. I just dont know anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): People often find it hard letting go of people even after they have broken up. It could mean he wants you back but on the other hand why is he with the other girl? Some men also like to keep things to flatter their ego. Without knowing your ex it's hard to guess which of these might be true. Could you talk to him about these things? Don't forget though, that this other one could get hurt: think about her feelings too.
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reader, dafdoris  +, writes (8 May 2008):
Okay did you read your own message ? He keeps your pics and comments because he still has feelings for you. Sounds like his new gf is just a sexual thing thats why he doesnt treat her so well. You need to stop trying to understand why he broke up with you, that isnt important and wont bring you any peace or the truth. Fact ; if he was into his new girl he wouldnt have your stuff on myspace would he ? And that is another clue as to how he feels about her. Problem is that whilst she is giving him what he wants without any pressure he doesnt need to take any action where your concerned. I would be tempted to let her know but hey thats just me.
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