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writes:Me and my boyfriend of seven years were living together, once again finally, he got clean and sober and I was having difficulties, I moved in with him and got clean for two months. I was having nightmares, trouble sleeping, and one morning I just up and left in my car with no money, and drove back to where I lived prior to this.I made a stupid mistake and relapsed. When I went home he sent my stuff to my moms, he wasn't there when I got there. All of his stuff was though.I understand he is upset that I up and left but I was going through some things that he should understand. I know he loves me, we were together for seven years. Please help with some answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): You can't expect another to understand something unless you tell him in a timely manner. Just because things happen, doesn't mean he understands your feelings by just holding you or seeing you. Good communication is important, if you had good communication, he would have been able to help you, if he could and you wouldn't have needed to disapear.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 May 2008):
Have you talked to him about it? It sounds like you are going through withdrawal. Are you getting help for whatever it was you are getting clean from?
If you talk to him you might be able to work it out. But you can't just expect him to understand you taking off like that. You need to explain it and be sorry.
Good Luck!! xx
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