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writes:i have known this guys for over 6years, work in the same place and we make love anytime we meet i cant resist him. When i have a problem or stress he is always ready to help me and give me suport. My problem is that he has never told me that he loves but he shows he cares and accept he misses me. At one point i had fallen in love with him and i told him, he said nothing.This days i find ladies clothes in his walldrop. I try avoiding him but i find myself with him,spend night at his place and he does the same at my place. should i stop seeing him or take him as a friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): It depends what you want from him. If it's just sex, then fair enough you could continue. Do you really want him as a friend? Would he still give you the emotional support if you weren't having sex, and would you still want the sex?
It sounds like he sleeps with others. Are you happy with this? Or would you rather have a more committed relationship?
Think about these questions and decide what you want, and tell yourself that you deserve to get what you want and nothing less.
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