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My weight problem is getting me so down - I wont even leave my house!!

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Question - (8 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *arn writes:

I am a 17 year old girl, and weigh 8 stone 5 pounds.

When i was 12 i weighed 15 stone and i myself admit i was overweight.

After the passing of my grandad i lost weight dramaticly, i couldn't cope, and went down to the size i am now.

I feel very fat and uncomftable with my body, i have tried diets, pills and exercise, but still nothing.

I need a solution to lose weight, when i do - i feel good about myself.

I have been thinking for some time about starving myself. Can anyone sujust what i do? I really need help because it's making me feel down all the time.

I wont even go out of my house because of it.

Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

Stop fretting about losing weight.You will become anorexic and you probably dont have any fat tissue left.This means that you will be starting to eat away at your muscle and if its your heart muscle it could put strain on your heart and eventually cause a heart attack.Go and see a professional about eating disorders and buy a pack of donuts on your way!!!!!!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2008):

You don't say how tall you are but 8 and a bit stone is very very light. Unless you are 4 foot then I really don't think you are fat. The reason you can't lose anymore weight could well be that you've lost all the fat you can, and now you are eating into muscle and bone density.

Check yourself out on this website:

http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/magazine/interactive/bmi/index.aspx

The fact you are so down and are doing extreme things like taking pills and thinking of starving yourself says to me you may be developing an eating disorder.

Why not go and have a chat with your GP about everything. He will be able to tell you if you do need to lose weight, or if you need help with confidence and self esteem instead.

Please don't waste any more money on diet pills either. They are very dangerous or they are basically just chalk and do nothing.

Good Luck!! xx

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