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writes: I got married to a guy i met last November, but before then i was having an affair with my boss.The problem now is that i enjoy my bosses love making more than my husband even though we have done nothing since i got married.I get jealous when i see him with other girls.I really want to be faithful and forget my boss because truly I know he has nothing in store for me, but i still have feelings for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): you need to choose: whether to save your marriage or to be with your boss... yoy have to decide! if you feel that your boss is takig over your feelings to your husband then you must do something!! heres an advice: try to give a resignation letter and forget about your boss. because its not good to work with him at the same time your longing for him... its CHEATING!! if you LOVE your husband then prove it to yourself first.... ", good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I agree with Isabell, you need to cut all contacts with the boss and find another job. If your hubby found out anything about this relationship, it could mean the end of the marriage, and a man devistated for quite some time.
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reader, Isabella1974 +, writes (8 May 2008):
hi, you best option i believe is for you to find another job, cut contact, if you feel you cant control your feelings for your boss. If you move your job then, you would not see him every day.
I know its hard sometimes to know what the best thing to do is, but you married your husband for a reason, you must love him, try and get back the spark in your marriage, talk with your husband see what you can do sexually to make it more exciting. Look at what you have got at home, you mentioned that your boss has nothing in store for you, well then, there is your answer. Move on and forget about him.
Take care.
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