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writes:i have been with this guy now for over 12months, but we are not a couple, so in other words he wont commit to me and make me his girlfriend, he hasnt met my family and i havent met his, we are both not seeing anyone else and he is very much in love with me, im just not understanding why he doesnt want a gf, he always talks about our future and tells me he wants to be with me forever, he is the nicest guy i have ever meet and i love him aswell, but i just want more security, everytime i talk to him about it, it always ends up in an arguement what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, shelleyanne  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 It sounds to me as though he cares for you a great deal, but in the back of his mind wants to keep his options open. It is possible that he loves you, but if he isn't willing to commit to you, then love along won't take you anywhere. I agree will Smiles, try to talk to him, but consider looking for a new man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): I suggest you talk to him again; try and stay calm; try and find out why, what is his reason for not wanting to commit to an exclusive relationship; maybe he has some fears or some issues; maybe the two of you can try and resolve these matters; if not, I suggest you start dating other guys; find somebody who will want you all to himself;
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