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36-40,
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writes:there us a guy who use to date my ex-bestfriend know is asking me out. his saying he should have ask me instead of my former bestfriend but i don't want tobenore than a friend to him. what shouldi do i don't want to lose our friendship and i don't want to date him. plus he live in a different country
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): Just tell him you're not interested. There's nothing unusual about a girl turning down a guy. Happens all the time & most every guy has it happen to them numerous times. He'll get over it
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 if you dont want to date this guy, then tell him. dont date him just to keep a friendship as that will ruin whatever you guys have. simply tell him that your not looking for anything right now but you value his friendship. or tell him you just dont see him in that way. just take caution not to bruise his ego or hurt him.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 If you don't want to date him, regardless of the reason, just tell him that. You don't need excuses. A simple "thanks, but no thanks" will do quite well. If he pushes you about why, you can always fall back on the old "I just don't think of you in that way" line. There's no real good answer to that.
You simply don't want to date him. So tell him so. And don't date him. Period.
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