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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey everyone my name is Clare i live in surrey in englnd, i went to a party at a pub the other day and there was this really hot guy who works in there of course being a girl i was wearing a low cut top, anyhow he kept looking at me but i was too embarrased to look at him as im not very confident and im really really shy!! i really want to meet him but dont know how as im underconfident, i dont really know anyone where i live as im quite new so its mainly my parents and i that go to the pub. how can i get him to notice me and how can i get to know some more people where i live so i dont have to go into the pub with my parents? i really want him to ask me out im still young only eighteen but i think hes only a year older than me... please helpp xoxoxo
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reader, no_issues  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 1. Walk up to him.
2. Tell him that you really want him to ask you out.
If he doesn't then directly proceed to ask you out, then he is one or more of the following:
a) gay;
b) taken; or
c) too stupid to be believed.
In any of those cases, you don't want him anyway.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 when you went to that party in the pub - who did you go with, your parents? a pub can be a great place to meet ppl as everyone is out to be social etc. you need to over come your shyness - no one is going to shun you for being friendly! as for the guy - next time you go up to order a drink at this bar, make sure its not too busy so he will have time to talk to you! ask him if he has been working there long, and that you are new and wanna know if there are any clubs etc that are good at weekends or something! be slightly flirty but dont sound as if you want him to take you - say that your having friends over and wanna go out with them or something. great opener as you will be able to find out where he goes, wat he likes doing etc....i would love to give you more advice on this so email me hun as im sure this is a really long answer already!! good luck xxx
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