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writes:ok well...before my boyfriend and i started having sex, i was a virgin. Now we've been doing it for about 6 weeks. During this time, i have not once climaxed! I'm not sure if it's myself or my boyfriends fault but it really puts his confidence down as this has never happened to him before!But i do think that it is my fault because sometimes when we're having sex it hurts...mainly when we're just starting and i think this is because he is very well endowed and my body needs to adapt to it.?I'm not sure but i would like some advice as to what the hell is going on?? why i haven't climaxed? and what can we do??thank you all so much :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): Take it you don't try some decent foreplay? Trust, me it makes everything a whole lot smoother.
He must be a 'wham bam thankyou mam' kinda guy then?
Try doing things without penetration. Oral sex, heavy petting, dry humping that sort of thing.
Hell even take it outdoors into a place you might get caught, that ups the thrill quotient to no end.
Try masturbation too... you need to know what gets you off before he can. He;'s relying on you to know the mechanics so he can get his instructions. The he can start on making his magic and finding new ways to bring you home.
So don't be boitchy or moany about it all, get out there and experiment with it.
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