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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,im really confused and to avoid getiing hurt again i would like some advice if poss.in about feb i started to date this guy i knew from work, it lasted about two weeks if that. things then became a little akward at work but we still remained good friends. we texted most days, worked together and enjoyed friendly banter. in march we both agreed to date again, it was both what we wanted and this time the relationship progressed a lot futher. we both said we loved the other and the relationship had progressed towards the sexual side. a few days after we had slept together fo the first time i discovered he still had feelings for one of his exes. he had already told me how she was the love of his life etc. he did cheat on her though and had felt so bad he told her and then she ended it. from what i can gather the relationship with her how lasted a while and was viewed by many as great realationship. one of my friends will by named as S for ease. one of his other exes named A has been talking to S saying that her and this guy had been sleeping together for 6 months. he denys this. A has then been contacting me and him to find out the details. she has said she wants nothing more to do with him but often sends texts to him. he did delete her number when in the prersence of me and lets me know when she texts him. i have just recently got back together for the 3rd time with this guy, we had been exchanging dirty texts and have been sexualy active with him for a while. i did have an ex boyfriend who i decided to give it a try with and proceeded to end it with after cheating on him with my current boyfriend. am i being used, stupid or plainly niave??i think i still love my boyfriend but its being kept a secret from many which involves sneaking round. do you think he really wants this???any comments of help will be greatly apprieciated.thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): yeah thanks. i am good mates but we are good as a couple! should i just see how things turn out this time? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): that question is very confusin but i would say b a mate to this boy u sound like u 2 get on well if e is still hung up on his x he is probably confused. i would advise you 2 leave you relationship there and b a friend to him unless he decided e wnts u! but then dont just cum runnin wen e wnts u 2 ! xxx gd luck xx
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