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writes:hey,i got a bit of an issue. I've checked google and things but i dont think anything but human experience can help me with this.i broke up with my G/F about 2 months ago, and shes now saying shes pregnant, but the only time we had sex was about 6 months ago, so she would have been bigger if she was pregnant. i know for a fact that she is lying but no one else believes me. but heres my problem, ive moved on and found the perfect girl but i cant get myself to be close to her, when i come close to her i am reminded of my ex, and become overwhelmed with hatred and destructive thoughts.I back off after this happens and i feel like my new G/F is backing off from me cause shes scared of me. What do i do? :( I dont wanna lose Emma but its only a matter of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): To add what oldersister said, you could also talk about what you're feeling to your current lover. This way she will understand you better and will probably stop being scared of you, as you described it. If she really loves you, she'll be supportive, which I'm sure she will
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