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writes:I'm 20 and Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and I'm crushed.We had known each other for bout 9 months but been together six months. In which time she has been telling me that she's so in love with me.However the other day she told me she hasn't been in love with me at all (which broke my heart)and she just really likes me a lot. Now I do love her, A LOT but she was leading me on and I ended it because I couldn't see a future.She didn't want to break up and is really upset and we agree it happened so suddenly. But I feel broken I really liked this girl and Ive never had a broken heart before.I have no energy and keep getting upset at stupid things. Did I make the right decision? I could have only got more hurt when she found someone else right. I feel naive and it feels like I'm never gona find any else now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): Well it wasn't right of her to say it if she doesn't feel it. But when it comes down to it, I don't think you care that much that she was "leading you on." You're probably the one who said "I love you" first, thereby putting her in a very awkward position. So I think as much as you use that as a reason, I think your just upset that she doesn't love you back. I think you may have acted a little rashly. If the relationship was going well there I don't think you should've ended it. Woman rarely stay in relationships unless they see some type of future. Maybe you were trying to move too fast which is why she told you how she really felt. You love her. So what if it takes her a little longer to fall in love? Now she really IS gonna find someone new.
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