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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I broke up almost an year ago but I'm still having some trouble getting over it. My ex has moved on and has made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. We're both members of a social networking website and since I have her as a friend, I keep getting alerts about what goes on in her life. I think that's what keeps me from moving on. Does anyone think that I should remove her as a friend from the social networking website? She wouldn't notice cos she's got about 2000 friends on it, and she never speaks to me anyway unless I speak to her first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): Remove her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): You are making it complicated when it's very simple.
Is she still a friend?
Answer: No. remove her
Answer: Yes. don't remove her
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): You say yourself that it is making it hard for you to move on.
I think you should delete her and if in a few years you are over her and would like to just chat and see what she's up to I'm sure you could find her on it again easily enough.
Good Luck. x
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 You make it more difficult for yourself if you are continually reminded of her.
Yes, by all means remove her and get rid of everything that reminds you of her.
That may be a difficult thing to do but it will pay off in the long run. Doc
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