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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:we have known each other for 7 years now. I cheated on all my girlfriends with her and allowed her to ruin the relationships. Never made it official with her. I finally have in 2 months ago... About a few weeks ago we've grown distant. We meet up no kiss or hug just arguing. Keeps acussing me of cheating. And she is extremely sketchy with her texting. I have her myspace password and she no longer gets messages. My little brother seems to be the same way with his phone. Things are deleted and hiding and locking. I spend time with both and seems there days are in sync.we really don't have sex any more. There texts calls attitudes...my lil bro seems to be hinting about something close and she denies and excuses and blames me and...its a mess and this is the only thing I can think of it seems this way! How can I catch them if that's the case?
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 Now shes got you shes no longer interested, she has been playing you as much as you have her. Maybe she is seeing your brother who knows?
Forget about them and try and find a nice girl that you can love exclusively, stop cheating or you will never break the habit and will be miserable and flit from one woman to the other for years to come.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 sit her down and ask her wats going on. i must say though you will get a taste of you own medicine if she is - how can there be any trust in this relationship when you have cheated on everyone else and suspect her? there are so many red flags here i dunno how you didnt see them. confront her and ask her outright is she cheating - tell her that she can either tell you herself or you will find out - cheaters always get found out. anyway if you have cheated before shouldnt you be an expert on sneaking around?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): don't try to catch her in the act.
confront her and your brother.Tell them that if anything is going on between them if they don't end it or confess and you find out. Don't be with her and you should disown your brother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): stop being so paranoid - sit her down and ask her what's going on!
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