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writes:I havent been able to love a woman in the past without sexual gratification i only love women foe sex. but now am a christian and find it hard to go into a relationship because of my past sexual escapades i have had as much as 30 sex paartners in the past advice me
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 hey there
Are you saying that you feel bad going into a relationship because of your previous ways?? Well You have to look at it like your turning a new leaf. The person you were is now left in the past and your ready to make a commitment. Everyone has a part in their past that they arent generally too proud of. This is yours I guess. The past unfortunately unchangeable so since we cant go back we can only go forward and make sure we dont go down the same road that we believe is destructive. Are you saying that you changed? Change is good if its positive, your change is positive and you need to maintain that state of mind. You cahnged for the better. You may feel that you wont be able to love someone due to your past haunting you, this will only happen if you let it. Forget about the person you once was...you know it was not the way you wanted to be so you moved on and changed your ways. Now your ready to experience love and not just sexual gratification. I believe in you and that you will find love.
take care && best of luck
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