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My ex's new girlfriend is giving me grief, what do I do?

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Question - (27 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

OK I wan to know how to deal with my ex and his new evil jealous girfriend.

This girl have been writing blogs and say real rude thing to me.I at frist like ok i dont care i aint go say noting, but (this is was on myspace) i did put up on my headline,(Girl be think u care wat they think who they w/ wat they do).

She made another blog and that when i was like ok i tried to let it go, but i respond in my own blog and told like leave me alone and stop bothering me cause i dont even know (she live in the state, but differnet city)

I mostly think she did this because i put my boby out on myspace and wrote a blog that migt sound like it when to her but it was about this boy i like and how i was upset about him and my bestie. So alot of my friend are say i should just call her down and fight her.

Now, i dont fight for no boy but i will fight for my respect (which she doesnt give me). Now she said she was talkin about me but i knows she was, cause im goth and she had all this stuff about goths.. Now with my ex i know he knows this beefin is going on he comes over my house and act like it cool and we aint talk since we broke up but I just want to know if i should fight her, go to my ex and tell him to get off me, or just be like let go...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008):

To fight her would just give her the impression that you cared about what she is doing...and that is what she wants you to do is care. Just turn the other cheek, and let her look jealous and immature.

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A female reader, Livinglifedaybyday United States +, writes (27 June 2008):

Just let it go. You will seem like the better person and she will seem silly and idiotic. If you must let out something, make a bulletin talking about how pathetically jealous some people can be and how sad it is that they are so unhappy with themselves that they must attack other people. Also you may want to talk to your ex about getting her to stop harrassing you. And if this continues just message her telling you to leave you alone. Keep us posted.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (27 June 2008):

Tremor agony auntDon't bother getting into an argument with this girl. She obviously wants to provoke you, and you are letting her.

Fighting her will get you into trouble and will just make both of you look like silly little girls who get riled up over nothing. Just let it go, and don't let one persons petty little Myspace blog bother you.

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