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female
age
41-50,
*inkhelly
writes: I have just come out of a breakup and feel really lonely as my boyfriend was my best friend too. I don't feel like I will meet anyone ever again as I live in a big city and it's hard to make new friends.I also don't go out drinking regularly, which is where most people socialize....what shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): Your first problem is thinking that the place to get a bf is a bar. Relationships that start with drinking have a tendency to fizzle out. Alcohol may help with an initial attraction but is a poor basis for a healthy relationship. I don't know what your interests/hobbies are but I suggest pursuing them in a social setting. That way you can meet people with similar interests.
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