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*yandude18
writes:I am a bit unsure about other peoples opinion and the cold hard fact about virginity.Right then, i want to start by saying that i believe myself not to be a virgin but i would just like to clear up a few things.My idea of losing your virginity is when the penis penetrates the virgina, but my confusion comes from the fact that some people say that the definition is more specific, ie. penetrating deep or to a cirtain depth. This question is not about how i lost it but all i can say is that it was crap and i wish it had never happened....nuff said.all i want to know is an opinion on basically.........if the penis penetrates even half an inch or an inch then have you lost your virginity? .Is their something else that decides if you have lost it?.does having erections in the process make a difference to virginity?I havent had any kind of sex since then and i was 15 when that happened and i am 18 now, so it is a big deal to me. was i decieved this whole time, am i really not a virgin. I know i am not a virgin but i would like opinions on it please.Please try and correct me if i am wrong. Maybe being a virgin would give me a new perception on life.....ha ha hathx
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 You are rather splitting hairs here. So it only went in part of the way and you think you're still a virgin?
Well, I guess, however you want it. You can tell your next boyfriend that you had a dick part of the way in and you want him to finish the job. That'll make him feel like he's the first one to screw you properly.
On the other hand, you may possibly be technically "a virgin", but you're certainly not "virginal". Someone who's had a dick half an inch into her vagina isn't much of a virgin, is she.
As I said, I think you're splitting hairs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): I agree with Danielepew here. Being a virgin doesn't have any value in itself. Some people do see it as a sign of purity and as a way to feel "above" others.
What should be valuable is your body. This is the reason why some people would get upset with very young people (10-14) who have sex at that age because most of the time it's very clear that the kids have no concept on how valuable their body is (they're just kids and haven't matured enough). Also many people get upset when a young person sleeps around with many, again making themselves look as if they don't value their body.
Try to be happy with your body now and keep on going. It is indeed sad you "lost" your virginity with someone that didn't appreciate you, but if you find someone who respects you and love, the sex would be more plesurable (since you said you didn't feel right).
Just remember to respect your body and mind, and not let anyone decieve you at all. Good luck
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Maybe many people will disagree, but, in my opinion, virginity doesn't have any value in itself. Being a virgin does not mean you're better than anyone else. It doesn't give you a "new" perspective in life. I think that sex would do that, instead :-). Maybe people think of virginity as some sort of "seal of purity", but don't give in to what people say. Just be happy, virgin or not.
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