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writes:I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's just bothering me, any advice?
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reader, °Ale°  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Yikes.. I've just been reading lots of things here that I totally sympathize with, one of them being your situation. When I found myself staring at my screen wanting to see my love show up online, not only did I realize how very much in love I was (still) and that I couldn't live without him.
It hut like hell to not have that person around, but I realize that that's exactly what I needed to FINALLY move on from everything.
You need to be away from the situation and start all over again. Take everything you learned from that relationship and apply it to the ones that are yet to come. Now.. it will be so freaking hard to do this. Lots of bumps along the road and its a bitch to get to that point BUT! you'll get there.
Hang in there though :)
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 If you broke up, she's doing the right thing. She shouldn't be continuing on as if nothing has happened. That's virtually the same as not breaking up at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): Don't worry my good man. The break up may have just hit her by now, and she is taking some time off from you. I do find it sweet that you care enough about her to worry though. She may just have gone for a visit or something innocent like that.
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reader, les +, writes (27 June 2008):
She probably blocked you. When my boyfriend broke up with him, blocked him on facebook, aim, gmail, anything that will let him know what im doing that doesnt involve directly speaking to me.
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reader, °Ale° +, writes (27 June 2008):
Yikes.. I've just been reading lots of things here that I totally sympathize with, one of them being your situation. When I found myself staring at my screen wanting to see my love show up online, not only did I realize how very much in love I was (still) and that I couldn't live without him.
It hut like hell to not have that person around, but I realize that that's exactly what I needed to FINALLY move on from everything.
You need to be away from the situation and start all over again. Take everything you learned from that relationship and apply it to the ones that are yet to come. Now.. it will be so freaking hard to do this. Lots of bumps along the road and its a bitch to get to that point BUT! you'll get there.
Hang in there though :)
Ale
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reader, Livinglifedaybyday +, writes (27 June 2008):
I think she may be avoiding you for a bit while she gets over everything. It is most likely hard for her to talk to you so soon after you have broken up. Just give her some time, she will come around eventually, and hopefully you can be friends.
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reader, Tremor +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Perhaps she has blocked you - she might not feel comfortable talking to you now that you have broken up.
Another alternative is that she has just been busy or left town for a bit.
I wouldn't fret about it.
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