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writes: Right the problem is my best mate told me she loves me and I feel the same way, I have done for a long time. I really opened up to her and told her how I felt. But she has moved now and is three hours away, she says she feels the same but the other day she told me she also like this guy at school. Since then we havn't talk so much and i really dont know what to do or think, i dont know if she gone off me. I love her alot, to be honest she means the world to me, i really wnat to be with her, even with the distance(if i can trust her like i used to). I just don't want to lose her all together. What can i do? Please help me i really need advice. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, jen.helping you to be happy +, writes (27 June 2008):
It sounds as though your friend is a little confused about what she wants, it could just be because she has moved away and doesnt quite know if a long distance relationship would work out. I feel that you should sit down and have a long talk about what you both want, tell her how you feel and tell her that you want to be with her even though there is a distance between you. Also make it clear to her that if she does not want a relationship with you that you will still be her friend because that could be whats worrying her. Going from friends to partners is always scary but whats important is that she know's no matter what that you are there for her. Good luck and Take Care x
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