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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, I like this guy and he likes me back. I'm 15 and he is 16. We told each other that we like each other 1 month back.We are not going out just yet, we're on the verge of going out. We are getting to know each other more in that way.I met him in January, so we are really good friends as well.He's liked me since beginning April - which is about 4 months, and i've only liked him since beginning of May - which is only about 2 months.He told me that he wanted to take things slow, because he isn't ready to be in a relationship right now, as he got out of one in February.I dont want to rush things either, as this is going to be my first relationship, first kiss, first everything. So we aren't going out yet, we haven't kissed or anything yet, only hugs and a bit of flirting.However, I sometimes feel as though my feelings for him are not real, sometimes I feel as though I dont like him, I really really really thought I did, but I haven't seen him for 3 weeks and it's not bothering me at all, he lost his phone 2 weeks ago, so we cant talk or text as much and he's only come on MSN once and we hardly talk, but we still like each other. Atleast I THINK I like him, i'm really confused, because I dont know if my feelings for him are true, and I would really like to know before we start going out, I really dont want to hurt him, but if I dont truly like him, then Im going to have to tell him.Any ideas how I can find out if I truly have feelings for him?and If I dont, how do I tell him? and if it does last, I'm really scared for my first kiss, do guys get turned off if the girl is a bad kisser?Thank You x
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 here's a little quiz for the poster of this question:
do you find yourself thinking about him randomly during the day?
do you miss talking to him?
if you saw him with another girl, and it looks like he's really into her, would it upset you?
are there days when you just want to hear his voice, see his face, or hug him?
do you find yourself buying clothes, trying things on, wondering what he specifically will think?
or
do you find yourself thinking about other guys?
wondering what it would be like to kiss or date other boys?
do you flirt it up with boys on the side?
are there lots of little things about him that annoy you that you can't let go?
only you can answer those questions! and only you can figure out what it means.
if you find out you don't like him and still need help from there, send me a message and i'll help you out!
don't worry about the kissing. i can tell you about my first kiss, it's pretty funny. and we're still friends.
good luck!
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