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writes:i am a 22 years old girl and i need your help and suggestion regarding the relationship between my real brother (27 years) and me. Actually my brother has very good personality (i also) and many girls like him. my brother has sexual relationship with many girls and i know, i have seen him with some girls during sex but he did not know that i know and i have seen him with girls in his bedroom. one day he caught me during same situation that time i was trying to be hiddeen. i never intrupted and opposed him. actually that time i was vergin and i also like sex i dont have any such type of boy friends thats why i never enjoyed the sex with anybody. after knowing one day i tried to enter into the brother's room in night while he was sleeping. room was in dark. i went to his bed i supposed to sleep very closely with my brother after midnight my brother thought that one of his girl friend is sleeping with him so he did not say anything and he started to kiss me and slowly slowly he removed my all cloths and finally he started sex with me and i could not oppose him for the sex why i did not know. that time it was very wonder and happiest moments.after releasing when he swithed on the light and saw me he shouted on me but that time my verginity has broken by my real brother and he was very angry. in next day i again repeat this step because i was very happy with this sex i know that this is wrong but i want to enjoy with sex. he saw me and he shouted on me said me to get out but i warned him if he will not be ready for sex i will complaint to mom and dad that he raped me and he has wrong relationship with many girls.so he has been ready for sex and we have started intercourse with each other. one day i felt some problem in health and then i went to hospital and there i had come to know about my pregnancy. that time i was pregnent of my real brother's baby due to never take any precaution. my pregnancy is more than 7 weeks and my brother does not know and parents also.i am very afraid and how can i handle this situation. what should i do, i like children so i do not want to abort my baby also. i am in very critical situation please help me and suggest me to solve the problem.thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): I agree dear reader anonymous, but maybe I'm getting cynical in my old age.... Incest can and does happen, and dependent on the circumstances I am usually the last to object... But elements of this story just seem strange, and it makes me angry that some people play games, and take up precious time that should be devoted to others instead.
Ok Dear Caller,
As Smiles has said you need to talk to a doctor about all the options and problems you may have with this pregnancy. Children born to siblings run a larger risk of being deformed or having genetical diseases. You wanted your "real" brother, and you had him. You don't care, you did what you wanted. Now show a bit of backbone, you told us, so just tell your parents and him what is going on. Your too strange to cope with this pregnancy alone. Bring your brother and parents together and tell them your pregnant and your need their support for the sake of the child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): I feel very sorry for you. You have some serious problems to deal with. Whether this is fact or fantasy, you need to get to a doctor a.s.a.p. You will need medical attention for the “unwanted” pregnancy; abortion is your only option, as the risks of abnormalities with this child is just far to high; you also need therapy, you have a mental illness and that needs attention before you harm yourself or anybody else any further.
Please don’t delay; get help soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): To those who doubt the veracity of this post, I wanted to make a comment. As twisted as it sounds, I have read posts from girls who said they snuck into their brother's room at night while he slept to look at or touch or lpay with his penis, or even put it in their mouth, because they were so eager (or desperate) to learn about sex, that they thought this would be a "safe" way to do it. So her sneaking into her brother's room at night to have sex with him would not be all that far-fetched. The broken-English nature of this post may indicate that this girl is not very good at English grammar.
But I agree that it is unsual that her brother would have sex with her and not know it was his sister, unless the room was pitch-black dark. I don't know if we will ever hear from the original poster again, but if her post is honest, then she's obviously in big trouble now and probably turned here for answers because she has nowhere else, or no one else, to turn to.
By the way, has anyone else noticed that there seem to be a lot of incest-related posts on this site? Is this becoming a bigger issue in human society? Or has it always been something that happens more frequently than we think, and it's just that with the Web, people are talking about it more because of the anonymity the Web offers? I'd like people's thoughts on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): I think you need to abort the baby. You're already seven weeks pregnant, and you will start to show that you are pregnant pretty soon, so your parents will know about it. The only way you could keep the baby is lie about who the father is by saying you don't know who the father is.And if you are going to keep having sex with your brother, you had better start using birth control!!!! Don't be stupid and keep having unprotected sex with him, otherwise you will get pregnant again!! If you don't want to use birth control, then don't have sex with him or anyone else. At the very least be sure he puts on a condom before sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): I agree DrPsych,
Nothing in this ladies post strikes me as being remotely real. I think it's a fantasy that she has dreamed up and imagines happening. You dear poster need some serious help to deal with your sick fantasies about your brother. If your story about your "real" brother is true, then you still need therapy to find out why you decide to act in such a cruel manipulative way to somebody in your own family. You need help quickly, before you seek to turn your sick fantasy into reality.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (28 June 2008):
 I think you are having some very unhealthy fantasies about incest. I do not believe that you can creep into bed with your brother, have sex and for him not to realise you are his sister. I think that you ought to seek professional counselling for your thoughts because it could severely affect your quality of life and relationships with other people outside your family in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): This baby could end up being really sick because it's parents are brother and sister. It does not sound like you are ready to be a mother either.
I don't agree with abortion, but I think that it is wrong for you to keep this baby. It isn'r fair to bring a child into this world under those surcumstances.
You were very, very wrong to threaten your bother like that. He doesn't want to have sex with you... He doesn't enjoy it. He only does it so that you won't accuse him of rape... which is a very serious crime. Stop this threatful behaviour and find someone to have sex with that is not in your family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): I agree. I think abortion is the least horrible choice here. At best, this child would suffer under the parentage of two people who are so utterly sick in the head as to have had sex with their own sibling; at worst, it would have some serious genetic defects.
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (27 June 2008):
 Critical situation is an understatment!!! Shame on you for behaving that way towards your brother.
Now that I got that clear, I dont suggest you keep this baby. I am very against abortion, however, in situationslike this, the odds are, this baby will not be right, and it isnt fair for it. Perhaps you should research insest babies. UGH!!! If I was your brother, I'd be furious with you. Go, take care of this problem, you decided to behave this way, and now is time to deal with the consiqences. Don't drag your brother in to this, threaten him, etc. You need to take ownership here.
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