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He was my friend with benefits, but now he has a girlfriend!

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Question - (27 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have known this guy that i really like for 8 years and we have been kinda freinds with benifits, now he has a gf and he says he loves me and doesnt really like her.

a couple of dayz ago we had an amazing nite together where we were cuddling and kissing on the check and what not and we left in a good mood. a day after he wouldnt talk to me and today when i went to pick up my report card and he was with his gf and would be looking at me and looked away ...he kinda broke my heart what should i do??

------Pink-Hottiee

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A female reader, kaylam United States +, writes (27 June 2008):

kaylam agony auntIf he is cheating on his girlfriend, do you think he will be doing that to you if u start dating him? Its something you have to really think about. Its not easy or fun, but it really pays off knowing you have a boyfriend you can trust. He isn't worth it is this is what he is putting you through. You can do better.. Good luck (:

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A female reader, kyliew Australia +, writes (27 June 2008):

Leave him. Hes seeing if he can do better than you, but in the meantime hes breaking your heart. He may love you and have feelings for you both, but hes not inlove with any of you. If he was he wouldnt be doing this. Its hard to leave someone you love but later on you will do much better and find someone that is even more perfect for you.

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (27 June 2008):

oldfool agony auntAre you really only 13 years old?

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (27 June 2008):

scrazy agony auntLeave him alone; he's only using you - he has a girlfriend yet he wants you to be his little piece of @$$ on the side.

This guy has NO respect for you whatsoever and honestly, you deserve better then that; you should know that you deserve better then that.

Find someone else - someone's who's single and will treat you much better then this guy ever will.

xo

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A female reader, Caralots United States +, writes (27 June 2008):

FORGET HIM.

He's playing you. If he's with a girl and he fools around with you, then hes obviously a player. girl you can find SO MUCH BETTER.

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